I only did three years of active duty and five in the reserves, but I honestly have to say that it took me a good 10 years to adjust to civilian life.
Here is my advice:
1. Go to school and complete a program of some type even if it's not a bachelor's degree. Civilians value civilian accredited education and they do not care how you did at PLDC or BNCOC.
And while we're on the subject, no, I've never had a potential employer ask to see a copy of my DD214. Most of them have no idea that it exists and the one that I did show it to was befuddled by it.
2. Update your civilian wardrobe to match the styles of today and not of when you graduated high school.
3. If you find yourself missing the camaraderie of the military then join a VFW or American Legion Post. You will never find that in the workforce.
4. Personally, I found that working for larger organizations proved to be an easier transition because they do have some semblance of structure to them. So do most government agencies. There's something to be said for stability.
5. Consider a career in business to business sales. On the face of it, many people shy away from this because you are basing your income on what you produce. But the reality is in the civilian world, nothing happens until a sale is made. In addition to that, there are some very lucrative earnings to be made from sales.
Consider for a moment all of the different people that you've had to deal with over the years in your military career. Besides your work ethic, that is the one advantage that you are taking with you that most people are sorely lacking in the civilian workforce. You know how to relate to different people from all sorts of backgrounds and connect with them. People skills are invaluable.
6. Stay true to your core values that you hold dear and do not compromise them. So you find out after six months that the people you are working for are dirtbags? So what? Move on. Someone out there shares your values and will pay you handsomely for it.
I truly hope that you are able to take one or two ideas from this and apply them to your search for a new career. Good Luck to all of you. Thank you for your selfless service and Godspeed.
(Submitted by Mr. Michael Starnes )
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